In my life I have heard many people talk about what it is to live the American Dream. We tie it to home ownership, or wealth, or any number of material things. You name it and we can “American Dream” it. We talk about it like it is a promise. It is not. It is a commitment. It is a sense of community and a sense of belonging. It is a struggle like non-other I know. It is hard work. If you want to know what the American Dream is about just look to the people of Kentucky and Indiana that are going through the recovery after an incredibly devastating storm. If you want to look further back, look to the Gulf Coast (two recent catastrophies), or recent San Francisco earthquake, or way back to the Great Chicago fire. What these places have in common is that the communities all around the affected area jumped in to help their neighbors in times of great need. The FIRST responders in a disaster are not the Fire Departments, the Police, FEMA or any other government agency. They are your neighbors. The others will come and I am thankful that they do but it is likely that your neighbor will be there first. You may not even know them but they WILL be there just the same. The people that are picking up the pieces in towns like Henryville, IN., Marysville, In., New Pekin, IN and West Liberty, KY and many other communities are living the American Dream. It is hardship and struggle. It is family and community. It is the knowledge that you will not face these struggles alone. It has always been that way. These survivors are now living the life of pioneers and rebuilding their lives and communities much the way the earliest settlers built their communities. And we, as Amercans who share the dream that is America, will help them. This IS the American Dream.
Some have said the dream is dead. I think not.
Like many of you I watched the events of Friday night play out on the local and national news outlets. For about an hour we watched the news in our basement and listened, and occasionally watched, as the golf ball and tennis ball sized hail pelted the house and deck above us. And we prayed for those in harms way. We had minor hail damage but nothing compared to the devastation that was unleashed on so many communities in the path of these storms.
I have lived in Kentucky (the Louisville area to be more specific) for a relatively short time. I have seen Ice Storms, Wind Storms, Floods; and now a Tornado outbreak that is not just unusual for this time of year, it is unusual for any time of year. Normally, the tornado season doesn’t start until spring time and Tornado’s of this magnitude (EF 3 and EF 4) are not common for this area. There is nothing that I can add to describe the devastation that has happened to so many communities that hasn’t been shown on TV. If fact,I find no words to describe what I have seen on TV. My nephew was driving back from Detroit to Elizabethtown, KY and I-65 was closed. The GPS routed him through Marysville, IN. which was one of the hardest hit areas. He took pictures as he went by. He was at a loss for words to describe what he saw but there was incredible sadness. I have not been to the areas hardest hit and I urge everyone to stay away unless you are supposed to be there. This is not a time for curiosity it is a time for generousity. You will be there when it counts. You always have been America. This isn’t about governments, or politics or any of the other nonsense we get caught up in as a society. This is about neighbors helping neighbors.
I wanted, no needed to write this as an answer to those who would point to all that is wrong in this country and say that the America that our parents and grandparents knew is no more, that it’s greatest days are over. Yes there are problems but there are communities, neighbors and strangers alike that are right now working to rebuild their part of the American Dream. But it is not the place they put their “stuff” that is their dream. It is the community where that place exists that is what they will be rebuilding.
Of course, the good lord willing, most of you will never have to overcome a catastrophy like this in your lives. But if you do, perhaps you will be lucky enough to have neighbors like those of West Liberty, KY, who, in spite of the fact the town was literally wiped of the map, were reaching out help each other. As survivor resident Dale Oakley was quoted in the Louisville Courier-Journal: ” this town can come back. The face of it will never be the same. But it will still be West Liberty”. Well said Mr. Oakley. America Dead? I think not!
Or perhaps you will have a neighbor as courageous as Jason Miller. When he saw his neighbors the Babcocks in peril, rushed to offer his neighbors a place in his home. He was blown across the road before he made it. He suffered multiple fractures. Two year old Angel Babcock survived, the rest of the Babcock family did not. Little Angel Babcock is in serious condition fighting for her life. Her Grandparents are at her side in Kosair Childrens Hospital. It was her neighbors who found her. If you want to support her efforts, and those of the doctors who are fighting for her go to: helpkosairchildrenshospital.com. The support will be there for her. At a time like this we need a miracle and you will fight to give her one.
Update: it is with great sadness that I report to you, that subsequent to posting this article, little Angel Babcock has passed. She now rests with her parents and brothers. My condolences to the family
America Dead? I think not.
The last group of people that I want to talk about are the Meteorologists, Storm Chasers, Spotters, etc. of both the the local and the national media. Yes, we all like to make fun of the fact that they “seem” to be wrong so much of the time. The truth of the matter is: if it had not been for the early, very early, warnings they provided , the death toll could have been hundreds. Many of them put themselves in harms way to spot the storms. They warned us early of the potential, the kept us warned as the storms developed and they told us where the storms were tracking. They warned and we listened. They saved many lives on Friday. Today, and for a least a little while, I will not make jokes. They put themselve in harms way for the sake of their neighbors and people that do not know. We will never know many of them. Their jobs? Some of them are paid. Others are volunteers. All of them could have stayed a safe distance away. They didn’t.
America Dead? I think Not.
We are in the middle of a political climate that is devisive, caustic and downright shameful at times. We think it is OK to call people names, insult their intelligence, etc. because the “talking heads” of the media do. So as you decry the idiocy of someone’s opinion remember that they may be the one pulling your butt of the rubble and helping you rebuild. And they will regardless of whether or not you are the same political party, religous affiliation or race. They always have. They always will. Be respectful.
So all the communities will pick up, they will rebuild and countless people that they may never know will help. Donations will come in the form of money food, shelter and clothing. These are needed so pitch in as much as you can. They will never know you but they will thank you. I know you will be there for them because that is the America of my parents and my grandparents.
Amerca Dead? I think not.
This is my opinion. I like to know yours.